By D S
Some of you church women are creating your own warfare and heartache by acting like you are so desperate and lonely. Every other week you got a different Boo that you have fallen in love with. Every man that says hello you think he is the one. You talked to him for a week, you head over heals in love until the next one comes along and says something that triggers lust in you then you drop that one and now this other one is the one. In three months you have been in love and going to marry ten different men.
Helloooo….a man can spot an easy target and they can smell a woman with a desperate spirit miles away. They will say what you want to hear to get what they want. Then you so want to get married happy until you create an illusion of a relationship in your mind. Then when he has played you, you want to get upset with God when you are the one running around presenting yourself like a waitress where the men order what they want and you serve it to them.
I have never seen such a magnitude of women that are supposed to be Godly that want a man so bad until they are just grabbing whoever and creating in their mind a marriage that is not going to happen. The women have their mind so focus on trying to get a man to marry them until they have forgotten God. They are just in church praying that somebody find them instead of them finding a relationship with God.
Where are the women that were so busy serving God until they didn’t even know a man was interested until he approached her? What happened to the women that knew that they were not more of a physical attraction to a man but their godly qualities stood for them? What happened to the women that knew they were valuable and that they only revealed their true worth after the man paid the price of love marriage and commitment for them. They didn’t give a man marriage benefits until there was a marriage ceremony.
Sometimes I want to snatch these women up and put them on lockdown and timeout from men until they get their priorities straight their mind right and learn how to value and love themselves. From young to old, from immature to mature it seems the devil is making getting a man the only reason why some women are in the church because they are trying to find a man and it can be only man. Helping women that are determined that they are going to get married one way or the other is a heavy burden. They are stubborn determined and think they are hearing God when in reality its their flesh crying out for relief to fulfill a void in their life!
Where are the older women that would teach women wisdom how to maintain themselves, how to go through when the flesh cried out, that taught them to serve God, hold out for marriage and keep themselves pure and holy…..oh I forgot they are running around being a cougar themselves. Let’s bring back those foundational teachings for the women to fast, pray, stay in the word and to hide themselves in serving God until God reveals them to their husband.