By Mule Martin
In proverbs 5:18-19 the Bible says â€œMay you rejoice in the wife of your youthâ€¦..May her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by HER LOVEâ€ Those words are sexual words in Hebrew and in any language. Its important to know and understand that God is the author of sexuality. He is not against it. He made it.
The only kind of sex He opposes is the kind that is outside of a marriage commitment. SEX as a married couple is an incredible bond. Itâ€™s a wonderful intimacy. And the most successful sex act is the joyful passion between a man and his wife committed to each other for life in happy marriage. There is nothing to compare to that, if you are willing to work for it.
A lot of people don’t associate sex with God â€” they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if sex weren’t holy. The bible is explicit when it comes to sex. Sex is holy within marriage, and there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to divorce!.
Women are heard complaining in counselling or to their trusted friends that: â€œMy husband treats me as if I were his brotherâ€. Some complain of being tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary. Ironically those who get it a fortnight are even lucky, since some wives only get it on big days, like elections. Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in brothels or seek mistresses. Have you ever asked yourself what those women in brothels and mistresses have that you don’t.
Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If you’re a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what’s hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.
Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don’t know what their husbands’ penises look like. They only feel it when he enters her. A penis is a wife’s toy â€” she is supposed to play with it.
Couples should be making time for sex instead of complaining about being tired after a day’s work. You find many couples who’ve been sexually starved for years. God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure. You can’t marry and not have a good time in bed.
WHO SAID YOU CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT? Why can’t you drive home during lunch and have a quickie with your wife? We’re all equal in sex â€” it’s not just about a woman satisfying a man.
You have to satisfy each other. Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied? Have you noticed how she glows and becomes energetic? May the Lord Bless you. This is the ‘Whole Truth, Nothing But The Truth’ and the TRUTH will let your marriage be free.
“SEX” is the most misunderstood and abused and distorted fact of our lives. Many use it as a quick fix for emotional stress or adrenalin instability (low self esteem) CAREER (porno, human trafficking, pimping, prostitution, compulsive addiction) FAVORS (bribery) PERVERTS (homos, Lesbians, groupie, occult) FORCE (rape, cheats, abuse of authority as priests) DUPERY (fake, egoist, selfishness, priests) CASUAL, RECREATION (contempt) PROWESS (play-toy) CHEATS (Adultery) EXPERIMENTATION (fornication) SAFE SINNING (Condoms). BUT all this turns into ash almost immediately and against us.
Sex should be held in reverence and awe, respect and love. Sex is the divine gift, that invites man to be a co-creator of life with God. This is why we cover parts of our bodies, its not out of shame! Instinctively we do that out of reverence for the parts that source and sustain life. And this for a fact, “If you cannot sort, resolve and manage your sex life, you cannot sort, resolve, manage any other issue in your life.