By Debra Sharon via fb
DEAR MEN, ALLOW US TO HELP YOU THROUGH THE PROCESS OF HEALING INNER WOUNDS.
Healing from inner wounds!!!
It often feels like it’s a girls or women’s thing that get tired healing. Men also need to go through this process to be real and good leaders!! We have very good looking men with wounded hearts trying to be men and lead women who cultivate inner healing. I have heard this phrase a lot that women do well with inner healing than men because they talk it out. Well, it’s the truth, but who told our men we can’t listen to them and help them through the process? I personally met a good man in the past who I gave a chance and he ended up damaging my heart also cause of inner wounds that he wasnt sure how he’s gonna tell me to walk him through….I wish I could let him know that I was okay to help him go through the process of healing the inner wounds. He had to be a man and hold it all in, Act like the perfect man and lead me fearlessly. When I learned about it, it was way too late because he had already gone home to be with our Father. I acted Like a perfect girl who wanted to be led confidently but that experience taught me to loosen it up and allow men who come my way express their feelings, disapointments, discouragements and their pain. It doesn’t make them lesser men because they’re human beings too. We have a Shadow of men who should lead courageously but not of men who should be helped to deal with their discouragements.
Not every man who approaches you wants you, you might be a rebound but please help them deal with their discouragements. Humanity should be in our vicinity, they must not pull out favours for us to show it..
Dear Men, Women are not your enemies especially if you have close relationships with them, go ahead and let them walk you this process, we desire to see Men who not only cry because God has been good, but also cry because the inner wounds hurt and they desire to heal…
Let’s go ahead and help the leaders of our homes heal the inner wounds. The society is on their case, the family demands superstar roles from them, and truth be told women cause 40% etc.
Let’s not allow them to lead when they’re wounded inside. That’s why we have wounded,bitter and broken families. A genuine heart cry for our Men.
Do you think you don’t need to heal?
Your character and attitude will please you!!
Allow us to help you go through it..
We are all victims.
Blessed new week ahead.