By Debra Sharon via fb
A MESSAGE TO MY GENERATION ABOUT SEX:
Sexual purity or abstaining from sex until marriage doesn’t guarantee you a ring or a husband, it’s a decision to honor God. My heart goes out to any girl, Lady or woman who’s caught up in situationships and entanglements;Any Man who’s interest is to see you naked to determine if you’re good enough is not a man you should keep, He’s poison to your soul. Don’t allow sex to determine if you’re good enough. Sex was a gift from God in marriage context. Your body is not a revealer of your worth, the Holy Spirit is..If he’s not willing to go in prayer and ask the Holy Spirit to show him who you are..CUT HIM OFF!
The issue may come here, when you both can’t sacrifice to go extra mile to ask God the intention of this person coz you’re both afraid it’s a no coz you’ve been jerks!
Sis, it’s time to cultivate yourself and set priorities that motivate you to know your worth in Christ, that way, you won’t feel guilty saying no to men that interfere with your priorities.
Not having sex before marriage may never yield you a husband but it does yield Peace.Your peace and purpose is more of a priority to you than a man’s private part! If you’re determined to get married work on yourself on every corner, spiritually, emotionally,career wise, financial management (however small it may seem) and stop giving sex in place of things that makes a stable home.
Sex clouds the mind from making sound decisions in relationships.
Love is not blind, fornication is the blinder.Love is the sight that can put the relationship on a microscope and help define it. But sex without commitment of marriage will blind you not to see the things that need attention.
Ladies,you’re enough and you don’t have to have sex to prove it. If He doesn’t see your worth with clothes on, He most certainly won’t see it when you take them of. Any man who’s interested in seeing you naked but not in wedding gown, RUN!!
He’s a destruction for your soul, He will sabotage your destiny.
It’s a generational decision, are you willing to make? Set standards for your generation.
You’ve heard of generational curses and some of you are probably on a fast to breaking them?really? A story for another day..
it’s time to make a generational covenant and decision that even your 6th dynasty will be drawing blessings from if Jesus tarries….
Make sound decisions for God.
Purity is POWER
Guard your heart.
Sexual Purity is God’s will.