Was “Mollis I Sullender” a rape case? If yes then read why you should be worried!
By Hon Jim Bonnie
This is the question emerging out of a sex tape audio recording where a female, probably a Kikuyu, in a rather romantic mood and position is begging/asking/telling his man to give him a breathing space by repeatedly saying, in a submissive and lethally romantic tone, “Mollis I sullender……..Mollis nimeshoka! This continues for long as it emerges that “Mollis” turned a deaf ear on his prey.
The audio is enjoyable to listen to especially if you are the type that like conjugal engagement otherwise called “conjugal rights” or if you just like watching pornography. The debate is now on whether the lady was enjoying sex or was being raped. I can bet I’ve some experience in sexual intercourse for years now but I cant bet my ass on whether this was a rape drama or an overexcited she goat enjoying sex. Donge!
Ujaluo inaniuwa but we can look at it this way. First, there was an interesting post by my good friend Diana Okello who insinuated that a woman can consent to sex but refuse in the middle of the act. In letter and spirit of her post, she meant that whenever a woman tells you to stop in the middle of drilling her, as a man, whether you have hit orgasm or not, you should stop immediately! Failure to stop would turn you into a rapist. Oh my wamae!!
This is interesting. And for those who may ask why I refer to Diana, she has some knowledge of rules of rape (you can call them laws), she also defend rape victims and therefore for her to have made such a post, she must have some legal backing unlike a hobbo like me who knows only cardinal rules on how to satisfy a woman to embarrassing levels. Lol and it always works for me.
But I beg to disagree with Diana and folks who abide by her statement. I don’t think you would turn into an instant rapist simply because a woman has told you to stop in the middle of your drilling escapade. I would like to say something to defend this statement using pregnant facts.
You know, women are funny species. A woman will tell you to stop in the middle of sex for three reasons. One, when she is in orgasm – yeah, that moment she fells like she can hold the world in her hands. Two, when she is at pain because of the duration of sex and lastly, when she doesn’t know what to say because “Johnny” is doing magic in there by turning water into excitement never witnessed since the fall of Soddom and Gomorrah and the kind of sweetness you are igniting in that cave surpasses that of chips or ice-cream. Donge!
I know many women including my friend Diana have found themselves in such situations. It is not wrong hii ni hali ya ubinadamu lol. In fact, many women are victims of Mollis I sullender circumstances only that they have not been revorded. And many men have also been told “Mollis nimeshoka” severally.
And this becomes worse when the lady decides only to talk in English, especially they bossy Luo ladies or a Wamboi from Kiambu who has his uncle in USA and wants to prove that she was birn there, she only came to Kenya a few days ago. You will defend me men when I say that these kind of women be like “fuck stop it…yeah ger in there fuck you…stop it”. You know woram talking about!
Hehe this is true! And they sing this during the whole procedure in bed. My friend Onyango Ochieng Jr. and Onyango Oduor can defend me here unless am wrong. I hope Simon Thiongo and Gerald Maina too agree with me.
So, if this is what happens, how then can you tell that a woman is serious and she wants you to stop? Mark you, if a woman tells you to stop and you try doing that, she will pull you back. Yours truly has experienced this severally.
I hold the view that sex should be breathtaking and sumptuous to state the minimum. If I go by the notion held by Diana that if a woman tells me to stop in the middle of the act then I should stop, then it turns out that I have raped all the ladies I have had sex with because, all of them have told me to stop when am just 20% into the act.
Does this mean am a rapist? And does it mean I have raped all the women I have had sexual inter coarse with? Does it mean I should be in Kamiti? F*ck this!
Talk to me folks!
I still remain JB or Opus Dei, and lately, I won’t mind if you call me Mollis. Donge!!!