Ms Kawira the star actress of Papa Shirandula show made is urging women not to take Maina Kageni’s advice seriously, however radio queen Caroline Mutoko thinks otherwise; Here below are the two interesting arguments, you decide who of the two popular ladies makes sense>>>
By Kawira (actress -Papa Shirandula)
No hate speech intended…only life lessons From a very good friend…
Morning Married Woman,I heard You call into the Maina Kageni Classic 105 show,I heard You lamenting about how Your Man is lousy in bed, I heard you broadcast your Man’s weaknesses to the public, I heard You jeering at Your Man, lambasting and deriding Your Man ON NATIONAL RADIO!I heard You, Woman!
According to You, he’s a dog !According to You, he’s lousy !According to You, he is the reason Marriage sucks! According to You, ALL MEN are jerks, idiots!BUT HEY,Maina will NEVER give Your Man a reason to come home early, THAT’S YOUR JOB!
Maina will NEVER tell Your Man how to make love to You,THATâ€™S YOUR JOB! Maina will NEVER tell your Man what turns you on, THAT’S YOUR JOB! Maina will NEVER remind your Man itâ€™s your birthday/Âanniversary, THAT’S YOUR JOB! Maina will NEVER enlarge your Man’s manhood, ITS NATURE.
You either PUT UP with it or SHUT UP!
Maina will never spice Up your sex life, THAT’S YOUR JOB!
My dear Lady,I tâ€™s about time You started appreciating that Man…Itâ€™s about time You started loving that Man like You used to….Itâ€™s about time You started treating him like You used to.,. Itâ€™s about time You started thanking God for that Man…Itâ€™s about time You rekindled that LOVE!
Ask Michelle Obama the stuff she’s been through, AND YET HER MARRIAGE is still going strong!Ask Hillary Clinton the stuff she’s been through, AND YET HER MARRIAGE is still going strong…Ask Jada-Pinkett Smith what stuff she’s been through, AND YET HER MARRIAGE is still going strong!
Hey!Quit whining!Quit complaining!Quit grumbling! Before you JUDGE and CURSE your Man, try to UNDERSTAND and BLESS Him !Maybe, YOU ARE THE REASON HE’S THE JERK HE IS!
You have a choice; Either choose to entertain the Nation with stories on how crappy Your Man is, OR choose to entertain HIM with stories on How Blessed You are to have Him!
THE CHOICE IS YOURS!!! WISE Women are busy trying to make their marriages work, while STUPID women are busy seeking advice from a clownish Radio Presenter— who is NOT even Married!
and HERE IS CAROLINE MUTOKO’S RESPONSE:
What an Amazing post and without doubt a very, very powerful status update from Kawira. Infact brutally honest – we bow to her wit and sheer insight.
However I will not allow anyone to butcher my colleagues just because they happen to have a well rated show – and hence easy target for all social ills. Let’s get something straight:
Maina has NEVER ever claimed to be a marriage counselor, a shrink, or relationship Guru.
Maina is the host of a show, that allows you to laugh, scream and in the case of some of these women AND MEN – a chance to vent.
Maina and Mwalimu provide a platform.
I understand the need to castigate the people who casually destroy their lives and shred their relationships on national radio; but it is un-necessary to drag Maina into it, to call him names or even claim that he destroys marriages. It is also utter trash to refer to him as clownish. Maina is many things, but clownish is not one of them.
Also – married or not irrelevant. Do his listeners connect with him? Then case closed.
Indeed the issue of Unhappily Ever After must be addressed, but it will not be fixed by trying to paint Maina Kageni as the maker of all things miserable, nor will it be fixed by setting ridiculous standards and making comparisons that those very women can barely relate to. Jada Pinkett? Like for real?
Maina’s show has forced us to re-look, re-think, re-evaluate and even re-consider how we enter relationships and how we make those relationships work.