There is a new trend in town. Social media sites (Kisumu Dads) are awash with pictures of supposed husband snatchers, posted by vindictive, vengeful and angry wives. Kind of a warning shot. Preparing them for fire and brimstone should they insist on ‘clinging’ on their husbands!
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. The wives come at ‘the other women’ with guns blazing, calling them all kinds of names. If only they could stop and rationalize. If only they could re-examine themselves! It is true that some men are born serial cheats. They would cheat with anything in a skirt as long as an opportunity presents itself.
However, the majority of men are driven to cheat by their wives. Whatever became of the sweet, submissive, cheerful women who welcomed their husbands with ready smiles?
Wives have become big headed. They have stopped doing the little things that matter. House girls have taken over their duties, going to the extent of spreading their matrimonial beds and even washing their inner garments. All this while the wife is busy with the remote, changing from one soap opera to the next, from one Afro Cinema to the other.
Men like attention. If they cannot get it from their wives, they will get it elsewhere. There are so many women out there, waiting, craving and yearning for love. They are ready to submit, serve, pamper, and treat other women’s husbands like Kings. While a wife is mistreating, ignoring and gossiping about her husband, other women are waiting in the wings to snap up the disgruntled men. And when this happens the wives, who literally drove their men into the arms of these woman start crying foul!
Listen you wives, if you cannot take care of your husbands, other women will do it for you. If you cannot serve them, cook for them, wash their clothes and respect them, don’t start throwing tantrums when other women do it for you. And trust me! There are many out there waiting, like vultures, to pounce and snap them up.