By Cyprian Nyakundi
……….and this was a person who never shown any sign that she was playing him. Let me tell you my nigga’s, that Chic has multiple personality-disorder. She’s a psychopath. And probably all the women over 27 without husbands are too. It’s not that they didn’t have willing males ready to cohabit with them, but these women and their contrived standards wanted to explore their sexuality and sleep around as much as possible
How can you tell you’re dating or pursuing a psychopath?
Chances are you’ve met one — because she’s intelligent, looks normal, and can be utterly charming. But she has no loyalty, and is incapable of love. So almost by definition, she can’t form a successful relationship. There’s no trust, empathy, emotional connection or commitment. And when she has sex, her experience is way different from yours.
For her, sex is all about boosting their ego, avoiding boredom, or taking advantage of someone. She’s usually highly promiscuous and into thrills and novelty. Acting out the slightest urge. Experimenting with homosexual relationships, using prostitutes, abusing children and enticing friends’ spouses to stray.
You see her at work in the bars. Brilliant seducer, hugely flattering, creating sympathy and a sense of deep connection right from the start.
But really she’s just sucking up your identity and playing it back to you. Asking deeply personal questions far too soon, and playing on every fantasy and insecurity you’ve ever had.
To begin with, the sex will be amazing. The best you’ve ever experienced. She knew exactly how to touch you and what to say. But for them it’s not an emotional experience. It’s all an act.
She’s just watching you, and skilfully pressing all the right buttons. And then, once you’re hooked, everything changes. To something cold and abusive. Mind games. Withholding sex. The silent treatment. Disappearing for days at a time. And it will always be your fault. In reality, she’s off searching for her next target. But any signs you might be thinking of moving on, there’ll be a thousand promises. Perfect behaviour. So in your confusion you’ll stay far too long.
Of course, she may just be a jerk. But if you see a lot of this behaviour, then she’s probably way up the antisocial personality spectrum. And you should run for the hills! It’s not your fault. You unknowingly fell in love with a psychopath. The only way to get rid of her is to go completely “no contact”.
Finally how do we correct the system?
We as young men simply have to stop pursuing women above the Age of 27. The irony is that they’re now throwing shade at us because we have come to this conclusion, yet will never fail to compare us with their older married sponsors whom they have flings with. We will consider that as the “lost generation” of women. Let’s leave them to sponsors as we nurture a new crop of normal women.
Because the more we pursue or lust for them, the more we convince them that they’re on the right path. When we as young people pursue women well above their 27, we are only encouraging them to delight in the mistakes they’ve made. When she goes home after a night out and being chased by men, her ego is way up there.
But if we treat them as outcasts, like the way barren women were treated in olden days, then they will have ample time to reflect.
For instance Kim Kardashian and Kanye West want a third child. Kim cannot have the kid because of her health. Because she got married to him at Age 34, her reproductive organ has developed complications after two children. Now they had to hire a surrogate mother. The men who are hoping to marry Sheila, Sanaipei, Kui, Eve, etc must also have a proper budget for post-natal surgeries. Because at their age, and the amount of P2 they’ve consumed, they must develop complications at child-birth.
My nigga’s you have to stop this shit of pursuing women over 27. Just stop it! Today!